POSITIONING STATEMENT I had a mentoring call with an author in New York yesterday from my rural base in the UK. ‘How are you today?’ she asked. ‘I’m brilliant!’ I responded. She looked at me quizzically. After a pause, she said ‘Here in the US that means you’re like Einstein, a genius, incredibly clever?’ I laughed. ‘No, I just meant I am in really good form.’ And we arrived on the same page. I learned about her work, empowering those who felt inadequate and the millions of people she had helped. At the end of the call, she said ‘Thanks!’ I smiled and said, ‘You are brilliant!’ And we laughed. How are you today? PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT EXERCISE 1. What do you say when others ask, ‘How are you today?’ 2. How often do you tell others that they are brilliant? VENTURE CAPITAL The taxi collects me at 8:40am from my hotel in Seef and takes me some 20 minutes to the Sacred Heart church in Manama. The driver and I have enough English between us, to arrange for him to come back for me at 11am. I spend two hours captive in this compound with no distractions. It’s a haven of peace for me. I leave at 10:58am and my driver is here, waiting to take me back to my hotel and swimming pool. PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT EXERCISE 1. Where is your haven of peace? 2. What is your next new venture? SUITCASE So much of our focus and time today will be about the here and now. Much of our focus will be on ourselves and what we need to do, or what we have to achieve. We have the wrong perspective though, for our focus and time today should be on what comes next. Our focus should be about what we have to sort out and do to get ready. We need to work out what we are putting in our suitcase. PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT EXERCISE 1. Where are you going? 2. What are you putting in your suitcase? INSTANT ACCESS To get from here to there is simply impossible. I know from experience that it just can’t be done. In practical terms, it is not possible and anyway, I have no idea where I would even start. These is no map. It has never been done before. So my brain can only see the outcome and not the steps. But as I see the outcome I realise that I have already left where I was. I am here. PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT EXERCISE 1. What is your impossible destination? 2. Don't worry about the journey. Can you focus on actually being there - right now? COMMUNICATION SKILLS Uncover your message. Write your words. Capture your stories. Keep a journal. Update it each day. Include your case studies. Harvest all that you are. For the world needs your grace and your love. Start a blog. Post your updates. Publish your books. Create your courses. Record your podcasts. Make your videos. Share all that you are. For the world needs your grace and your love. PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT EXERCISE 1. What have you seen and learned over the years? 2. What are your messages for the world? WORD Thinking differently about everything encourages us to focus on a word and to hold this word. We place this word at the centre of our hearts and allow it to grow in these moments. It is in this process that we move beyond our normal definitions of words and meanings We try not to get distracted and keep coming back to this word resting gently within us. It is only when we free the word to be in and off itself that it becomes all that it should be. We then become one with the word within us, for we are the word and the word is with God. PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT EXERCISE 1. Choose a word, sit quietly for ten minutes and just hold this word gently within you. 2. Images and feeling will emerge after a short time. Follow these. Then write it all down. LIFE SENTENCE In this moment a thought is born and the idea comes. The words flow and the writing takes shape. Ready to share. Every moment holds a thought. So let your ideas come, your words flow and your writing take shape. You’re ready to share. PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT EXERCISE
1. Create a moment each day just to catch your thoughts..... 2. Remember, our thoughts are unique and they are our treasure. How can we share these? BUBBLEWRAP When I started my daily reflections at the beginning of the Covid-19 lockdown, I never imagined that I would go to a hundred days, never mind Book Two. For what started out as a short sprint has now become a marathon for all of us. We’ve had to adjust in incredible ways. Our normal relationships of family, work colleagues and community have been disassembled and we have been left floundering, trying to understand and to recreate ways of living, being and working. We keep getting different rules that only increase our uncertainty and stress. And there is little to address the isolation, loneliness, sadness and fear that is being felt by so many. Without a training manual we are having to rewire our brains, reconfigure our thinking and reprogram who we are. Some are gradually adapting but so many are struggling. In the coming days and weeks and months don’t shrink into yourself, don’t hide in your bubble and don’t close your door. Be gentle on yourself and reach out to others. We all need to know if you’re learning to cope with the challenges that are unknown, the new ways you are discovering, and the pieces of joy that you found in this difference. So, as we look out at our world, floundering with no plan and no certainty, let us each grasp the opportunity to ask for help, seek support and reach out in our own way. Let us remember today, those without internet, those on their own, the millions of people directly affected by Covid-19 and the loss of loved ones. So many are literally trapped. But many of us are not so what are we going to do? Let us all think and act outside our bubbles. PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT EXERCISE 1. How can you be gentle with yourself today? 2. How can you reach out and share with others in a new way? REFLECTION We can only really see ourselves properly when we look in a mirror. The reflection comes straight back to us. Our bathroom mirror shows us how we look today. We can only really know ourselves fully when we look to see God. The reflection comes straight back and shows us just like a mirror all that we really are. Until we look there can be no reflection. There is no picture. There is no image. Until we look to see God there can be no real understanding of self. PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT EXERCISE 1. What do see when you look in your bathroom mirror? 2. Where else can you look to know yourself better? HOLDING COMPANY It is the pot that holds the soup. It is our soup. It is the universe that holds the world. It is our world. It is the arm that holds the child. It is our child. It is the book that holds the word. It is our word. It is the face that holds a smile. It is our smile. It is the light that holds all life. It is our life. PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT EXERCISE 1. What do you hold in your life? 2. Who holds you? |
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