Day 251 of Des McCabe's Personal Development Exercises THE BOTTOM LINE What's the bottom line? Is it profit, survival, cash, market share, return or growth? It can be all of these of course but what’s the bottom line for you? What really matters? This is the ultimate business question. What's the real bottom line? Nothing matters but God. PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT EXERCISE 1. What REALLTY matters to you? DEFLATION It’s always the same feeling as I walk away from the station alone. You’re off on your train journey and there is an emptiness and a strange quietness without you. It’s a feeling of deflation for the wind has been taken out of my sails. PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT EXERCISE 1. What makes you feel deflated? 2. How do you deal with this? JOB VACANCY When we are asked ‘what do you do?’, we often give a response based on a job. I am in retail. I’m in banking. I work on the ambulance. I’m a teacher. Or maybe, I’m unemployed. I’m looking for work. I’m building my business. I’m at college. The world has conditioned us to define what we do, by the job we do. Our perceived economic value. But this is not what we do. This is simply the role that others assign to us or we give to ourselves. So, go beyond the two or three word title, and think ‘What do you do? At home? With your family? With your colleagues or friends? In your community? In all your activities? In your creativity? In your gentleness? In your conversations? In your hopes and plans?’ Next time someone asks, Have your answer ready and tell them, what you really do. PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT EXERCISE 1. Let's practice this - 'What do you do?' QUANTITATIVE EASING The shortest way may be the longest. The highest road may take you nowhere. The smallest thing that you do may be the greatest. PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT EXERCISE 1. How do you measure what really natters? MODUS OPERANDI We are here in this life to serve God or if you prefer to build love. They are both the same. So many of us are told to look for happiness in what we do, and how we can build our futures But happiness is found in the mode of service, beyond the mode of self. For if we work solely for ourselves, on our plan, we exclude others. But when we look to all others, we include ourselves. For we are part of all. PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT EXERCISE 1. What is your way of working - your modus operandi? MULTI-STORY We choose how to spend our time, how to live our life and what our priorities are. It is these choices, that create the picture, or canvas, that captures all that we are. And sometimes we make the wrong choices and the wrong decisions. But we can start again. We can paint over our canvas. We can make new decisions, better choices. So, many layers and stories are built up over the years. All is embedded on this one canvas. This is our gift to the world, enabling us to leave behind all that we are. PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT EXERCISE 1. What does your canvas show at the moment? 2. What layers have been covered over? How many? MALFUNCTION The opposite of love is unlove. It is when we move away from our true nature. It is when we create a situation within ourselves, which is not aligned to our true being and what we will become. PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT EXERCISE 1. What does 'unlove' mean to you? 2. When has 'unlove' been relevant in your life? DOOR HANDLE What happens in this moment can change absolutely everything, if I let love in. PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT EXERCISE 1. What do you have to do to open the door? 2. What will be different for you when love comes in? BLACK FRIDAY They’re going to be scratching their heads even more this year. Wondering what to get the Old Man for Christmas. Amazon will have more clicks and cash than it could ever have imagined. Black Friday is becoming Black Christmas. So perhaps I’ll adopt a different approach, and take the pressure off those determined to buy me something. This year. I’ll say exactly what I would like. There are millions of people and thousands of groups struggling in the present situation. There is no normal Christmas this year. So, I would love it, if you could make a small donation to those doing good work or help a local cause on my behalf. However, if you really want to do the online Christmas shopping experience, then why not send a surprise toy to a young family, a gift to an older person or a food delivery to a local food bank. We can spend our way from now to a Black Christmas or we can empower each other and create a Kinder Christmas. PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT EXERCISE 1. What would you like for Christmas? MONITORING VISIT I was sitting in the garden early this morning and the gate opened unexpectedly, with a rattle, and Jesus walked in. It was not what I could have predicted! He was dressed in white of course, raised his hand, and shouted ‘hello’ as he closed the gate. I’ve just come to say ‘thank you to everybody for all the good work that you are doing. I know how difficult it is at the moment’. He sat down on the bench beside me and we said nothing. He didn’t need to say anything and I didn’t know what to say. He then got up, shook my hand, gave me a hug and said ‘Good to see you’. As he closed the gate he added ‘Take care, talk soon’. PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT EXERCISE 1. What would you have said? |
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